The Silent Plan of Love
Dear friends,
In my research about radical freedom and Absolute Love, I am in what I have come to call The Andalusian Experiment. I have been deep in my research before, and I am often moved by the experience of Love that finds me, the beautiful connections I have with many people, but now I am taking it a step further. The question now is: how can an intimate relationship be a way to radical freedom and Absolute Love, and can two people really find Unity in togetherness? What does it take?
It takes a lot. That’s what I experience in The Andalusian Experiment.
It takes unleashing the demons that only want to spit fire (blame), acknowledge them and take them in our arms until we recognize them as innocent children that we have banned from our home long time ago. Of course they are angry. Of course they cannot change as long as they are not understood.
It takes taking full responsibility for our own emotional condition. The blaming might be understandable, but it’s never true. My resistance is my resistance.
I know, we tend to think ‘but in my case it’s different …’. Well, it isn’t. The other is never wrong. He or she is just an amazing expression of Life and our perfect sparring partner. He or she is showing us what we want to transform. It’s the incredible gift of Life that we always get invited to go what I see as the most beautiful path we can go: the one towards being free and awake, unattached and transparant, so we are available to live this unique expression of Life that we are. It’s a radical choice.
In these last days I started writing Principles of Love, as part of the book that I am writing. One that is very dear to me is this one:
Love is ambitious.
I wrote and will write more extensively about it. For now I put it in a poem.
The Silent Plan of Love
It’s easy to love what is easy to love.
But love wants to go where it hasn’t been before.
It wants to grow.
Love invites you to love what you don’t find easy to love.
Because ultimately what you don’t find easy to love is part of you.
You want to love all of you. All of you is love.
To realize that is to understand the silent plan of Love.
Love you all
Zoe
